how to unlock the keys to your queendom!
and live life your way!
We all have a path in on that path often times we look towards others for external validation. We look outside of ourselves to make sure we're doing the right thing on the right track we go to people for advice and support and sometimes it's not always received in a way that is supportive to us.
Don't give me wrong friendship is great and family is great but if you're wanting to start your own business or start dating or feel empowered and powerful going to people who aren't going to nourish your dreams is not helpful. It's important to surround yourself with like-minded people who will lift you up and support youyour mission, dreams and goals.
Having a mentor is also key when wanting to achieve your dreams. You need someone there to hold you accountable and keep you moving forward. Someone who can help you see the forest through the trees.
Yes having support plays a major role in attaining and living the life you don't want to live. What's more important leave though is you and your ability to trust yourself and trust in the divine. I want to talk about divine I'm not talking about religion I'm talking about something bigger something outside of yourself some c call it universe, some call it God, some say spirit are angels some call it Buddha in a matter what you call it it's your inner wisdom your connection to something bigger than yourself.
Now for some of you who maybe thinking I don't believe in God I don't believe in any of that I beg to differ you believe in something. If you've ever wished for hoped-for prayed to or asked for something you believe in something.
So I invite you to stay open in your heart and your mind to the possibility that maybe there is something bigger and you can call it whatever you want to call it I'm not here to tell you what to believe I just asked for you to be open.
If you're feeling resistance to any of this be curious what is it that you're resisting? Is there any truth to what I'm saying?
If you want to live a life on your terms and be the fullest expression of who you are meant to be and I just invite you to stay open your heart and your mind to the possibilities.
I've experienced time and time again that when I tune in, ask for guidance and then take action that amazing things happen!
By following this three-step system I've been able to do some of the following:
💕Traveled to Bali, Indonesia because I followed the breadcrumbs that started on Instagram.
💕Left an unhealthy marriage after a decade.
💕Stand up and speak up on my behalf for the first time in my life
💕 Let go of photographing weddings (which I thought at one time I'd do forever)
💕Moved across country with minimal plans and even less money
💕Manifested and fell in love with my soulmate, 10 days after arriving in California
💕Moved to LA to further my growth
These things all happened because I tuned in, received the guidance I was given, said yes to myself and trusted in the divine and in myself.
STEP 1: TUNE IN
Tune in. Now I know you might be thinking what the heck do you mean? And I get it, five years ago I wouldn't of had a clue what I was talking about. But I said tuna know I mean taking time to get quiet be still and to receive guidance from the divine.
There are so many ways you can tune in and receive guidance. Here are just a few ways to connect.
- Auto writing
- Pendulum work
- Oracle cards
- Walking in nature
Yes there are so many ways to connect to the divine and taking time to figure out what way works best for you is worth the effort and you may have multiple ways you like to connect. The important thing is that you get quiet get still and ask for guidance. One simple way to do that is asked the question:
What is my next step?
This could be about business, relationship, health, career, family, whatever it is you have questions about.
And then wait for an answer. Now you may think that it's your just your own thoughts and that's one of the most challenging thing is discerning is this my thought or is this guidance. But know that the first thing that comes to your mind is probably guidance
Step 2: Listen to the guidance your given
Now you may think that it's your just your own thoughts and that's one of the most challenging thing is discerning is this my thought or is this guidance. But know that the first thing that comes to your mind is probably guidance.
The key to getting any guidance is to really trust it. It takes time and practice to learn to trust it the more you do it the easier it gets and you'll be asked to take bigger leaps which requires more faith and more trust but for now start with whatever comes and just see what happens. Again be open and see what comes up.
Trust what comes up, then take action.
STEP 2:LISTEN + TRUST
STEP 3: TAKE ACTION
Taking actions one of the major steps in this process of living a life that's completely yours. We can sit around and wait for things to happen wait for God to save us but the truth is God's hands are tied and less we take action. That is the power of free will. You get to decide what you want to do and I speak from experience when I say I've gets a full out easier when you can listen to guidance and take action from there. It's not always easy taking the steps, in fact sometimes it can be terrifying but when you can flow with life all the ups and downs in the uncertainties and still have trust and still have faith then your life's path becomes a lot easier.
You don't have to sit in question and wonder what am I here for? What am I meant to be doing? What's my purpose in life? Is this all that there is? When we follow the guidance for a given gives us purpose to give this time he gives us everything that were needing. The truth is our needs are always being met, they may not be much in the way that we think they should be but our needs are being met.
We go through the hardships in the heart aches that we do to learn valuable lessons to get to the next level of growth. Our current reality is just a reflection of where our thoughts have been.
So if you feel like you don't have enough time enough money or nothing or anything. What have your thoughts been focused on? If you're stuck in worry I'm feeling anxious like you don't have enough that's going to be reflected back to you and your current situation.